What gay lingo do you hate the most? October 7, 2018 compassq 5 THINGS TO KNOW, A & E, ENTERTAINMENT Comments Off on What gay lingo do you hate the most? (Shutterstock) If you’ve ever had a visceral reaction to the words “moist” or “panties,” you know some groupings of consonants and vowels are more grating than others. But what queer lingo gets on your nerves?