Why do so many gay couples open up their relationships?

While an open relationship may be the best relationship for some couples to have, successfully being in one requires capabilities that many of us do not possess. (Photo: Bigstock)

As gay men, we’ve been through a lot.

For so many years we were deep in the closet, fearful of being arrested, and threatened with pseudo-medical cures.

Then came the Stonewall uprising, the declassification of homosexuality as a psychiatric disorder…