Gay men still can’t donate organs and it’s killing people.

The pain caused by not honoring the last wishes of men who wanted to make the ultimate gift is not worth the perceived — but actually untrue — decrease in risk. (Photo: NBC News; Getty Images)

When Sean Reinert — a Los Angeles-based musician memorialized by Rolling Stone as a “death-metal drum trailblazer” — died suddenly at the beginning of the year at 48, he had a final wish that his husband, Tom Snyder, thought he could fulfill for…