Gay people who come out later in life face unique obstacles

Cyndi and Brad Marler sit for a portrait with their 1989 wedding album at Cyndi's apartment on Oct. 18, 2021, in Chicago. (Photo: Charles Rex Arbogast / AP file)

A lot can be hidden behind a marriage. For Brad and Cyndi Marler, it was that they are both gay.

A few years after their wedding, they told each other their secret. Then, for more than three decades, they told…